Monday, December 10, 2012

Gown Design Presentation

As usual, the fiance and I have been super busy with work, so it took a while before we got to do wedding stuff again. We actually forgot about our wedding for a few weeks there, amid a haze of overtime and holiday/weekend work. We had to put off supplier meetings, and even simple research. Now that my big work project's winding down and I have my weekends back, and the fiance's also slowing down with work, we're busy catching up with our preparations. It's really a challenge trying to find the time for it.

Anyway, yesterday, we made it to our second meeting with my gown designer at last. After making our reservation deposit (a supplier standard to block off your wedding date), we had a meeting for the presentation of designs. I was shown three sketches to choose from, but I changed my mind about what I wanted so I was sketched another one on-the-fly. I had a hard time articulating what I had in mind, and I felt like I was too weird, not wanting any frills. The fiance actually kind of went on groomzilla mode too trying to help me, haha, but it was great because he asked all the right questions. Despite the trouble getting there, it was great. It became a collaborative effort, and I was happy with the result!

Sketches

Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Wedding Coordinator - Check!


The wedding coordinator is a non-negotiable for me and the fiance, and it was also one of the hardest decisions we've ever made with regards to our wedding. Having been to so many weddings where things went awry (some only slightly, some totally phobia-including), we knew we couldn't do it ourselves. We also didn't want to rely on our friends and family - we want them to enjoy the day with us, and not have to worry about anything. Our college friend Jason also gave us very good advice. He said that it's different when people are paid to do something, and we totally agree with him. 

Camille's super cute business cards on top of my wedding notebook, which contains several pages of notes with all the helpful info she provided us that day.

Gown Designer - Check!

Our wedding preparations have been up and down. We've been far too busy to do wedding stuff, so what happens is that we'll do a lot one month and then fail to do anything the next. This has to stop! Thankfully, we're getting some important things done in November. One of them is being able to book my gown designer, Edwin Uy.

What these fabric swatches are for, I'm not telling!

Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Save the Date: Behind the Scenes

A and I can be creative thinkers, but we definitely don't have the skills to execute artsy things. This is why my Wedding Fairies really played a huge part in our Save the Date stuff. We decided to go DIY (do-it-yourself) because they're just cards, and they're not as important as the actual wedding invitation. So A and I brought supplies, and Lek and Clang came over to my dingy little Yellow Pad a few times back in September to make them. I came up with the concept, they brought it to reality. Here go the behind-the-scenes pics.

Hard at work. This was the night when we finalized the card designs.

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Sunday, November 11, 2012

Hotel Ocular - Century Park Sheraton Hotel and Manila Hotel

For the fiance and me, the hotel is an important part of the wedding. It is where we will be doing our preparations and staying with our families the night before the big day, where we will be taking a ton of photos, and it is where we will be spending our first night together as husband and wife. What part of that is not a big deal, right?

That is why an ocular of our prospect hotels had to be done. A and I wanted a hotel in the Roxas Boulevard area, so that it's easily accessible, has less traffic to worry about, and the area is pretty picturesque. We were suggested hotels in Quezon City, but it's far from our reception venue, has unpredictable traffic, looks pretty congested, and we really don't know much about that area, having grown up mainly in Manila. So Roxas Boulevard it is. Luckily, my fiance's mom and my future mother-in-law is in the airline industry and is pretty connected, and she was able to set up two oculars for two hotels in the vicinity of our church and reception venue.

Century Park Sheraton Hotel

Manila Hotel

Monday, November 5, 2012

Random Entourage Meetups

So the fiance and I have managed to skip another month with this blog. We're so bad at this! Haha. It's just that our jobs have really revved up tremendously lately, and while that's good for our life in general, our wedding plans have kind of taken a backseat. We're remedying that this month though because we're down to five months to go and just thinking about it kind of sends us into a wave of contained panic!

Anyway, despite our hectic schedules, we actually have been able to squeeze in some time with our family and friends, who are also members of our wedding and liturgical entourage. I thought I'd document it here, just for the memories.


September 7, 2012. One of our bridesmaids, my cousin Sheila who's based in Singapore, came home for a quick visit, and we got to meet up. We had dinner at Ramen Cool and she slept over at my place that night.

Wednesday, September 19, 2012

Photo and Video - Check!

Aleq and I are accomplishing a lot this September! We sure are making up for our dismal August. So yep, we've booked our photo and video service!

This took a while for us to decide on because there are so many photo and video services out there. We made sure we did our research with this one, because it's one of our main priorities, and one that we always knew we would spend on. The photos and the videos will serve as records of the memories from our happy day after all. 

The fiance and I started making inquiries in July. We just wanted to look around while we were finalizing our church and venue. We scoured wedding websites like BridalBook and Bride and Breakfast for photos and videos that we liked. We mainly looked for those who had beautiful, natural-looking photos. We didn't want extremely dramatic or pose-y pictures. We also don't want photos that are too artistic, the memories become distorted. We basically wanted photographers and videographers who are keen on capturing the moment rather than forcing moments to happen. We made a shortlist, went through hundreds of photos, and watched prenup and on-site-edit videos to no end.

Reviewed our notes over dinner at Pancake House after meeting with our photographers. 

Tuesday, September 18, 2012

Cake - Check! Plus a visit to the Wedding Lounge

The cake was one of the things that the fiance and I meant to deal with further down the road. It's not one of our main priorities, and the cake doesn't really require a lot of preparation. It's going to be made only right before the wedding anyway - why do we need to think about it now? Fate intervened however, and the cake actually became the first thing we paid for in full. Here's how it happened.


Cake-tasting and a trip to The Wedding Lounge! Fun stuff.

Friday, September 14, 2012

Being Productive

Aleq and I plus our wedding fairies Lek and Clang are almost done with our first project! The girls came over to my Yellow Pad, and it was such a fun night! My wedding fairies are awesome. We ran into a bit of a speed bump however, so we're finishing up next week. What it is, I'm not going to say just yet. For now, here's a pic that my cousin Lek took that night.



Monday, September 10, 2012

Wedding Expo Philippines

It's September. Aleq and I have seven months to go before our happy day, and we are really hunkering down into the nitty-gritty of wedding planning. We were incredibly busy with work in August, so we kind of fell behind a bit with the wedding stuff. We're getting back into it though, and today we accomplished a lot.

The Wedding Expo Philippines was the biggest bridal fair we've been to so far. It was held at the SMX Convention Center at the Mall of Asia, so that can give you an idea of the scale of the event. The booths were a lot bigger, and there were a lot more suppliers there than the others we've been to.

Wedding Expo Philippines

By now though, the fiance and I are hustlers when it comes to wedding expos, since we've already been to - and survived - two previous ones. We breezed through today's event, skipping the booths we've seen before, waving away supplier brochures we're not interested in, and making a beeline for the booths we wanted to check out.

Caterer - Check!

The fiance and I went to the Wedding Expo Philippines today (more on that in my next post), and we finally booked our caterer, Josiah's Catering! It was actually our primary reason for going to the expo - we were meeting Karla, our banquet events consultant there.

After the initial food tasting, Aleq and I were pretty much set on Josiah's. We would have booked them then and there, but we had to finalize our contract with our venue first. We had to decide between a venue-only package or an all-in-one package (we decided to go with the former), and we had to inform Josiah's about it before booking. So when we were all set with our venue contract, we set up a meeting with Karla, paid the reservation fee, and now we can cross that off our list!

Our reservation receipt, plus the box of heavenly truffles that they gave us as a gift for booking them - how sweet!
  

Tuesday, August 14, 2012

Food Tasting - Part One

We've booked the two most important things - the church and the reception venue - so now comes the third most important detail: the caterer. There are a lot of things we considered in making a decision on this one. We actually picked our first choice even before we started going to the bridal expos. We said if we talked to them and liked what we heard, then we don't have to figure out a second choice anymore.

Firstly, we wanted a caterer whose food we have actually tried before. We looked back on weddings we attended and figured out who was the most memorable in terms of taste. Then we considered the styling - did they have designs that fit our theme? Again, we checked our friends' weddings and picked the one we liked the most. Third, we researched online, checked the reviews, and took note of their overall reputation. It was only then when we were pretty much convinced that we actually looked for their booth at one of the bridal expos, talked to their account executive, and got their rates and package book.

We are going with Josiah's Catering. They fit all the criteria that the fiance and I have set. We have experienced their service before, at three friends' weddings. We remembered that we enjoyed the fare thoroughly at those weddings, which is the most important thing. We also liked the styling - they have modern setups that will work with our contemporary theme. They are also one of the most reputable caterers in the country, and - not that it matters, since I just found out randomly online the other day - they have done several celebrity events, such as John Estrada and Priscilla Mereilles' wedding.

After the initial meet at the Philippine Wedding Summit, Karla, the banquet events consultant assigned to us, started e-mailing and texting us invites to their food tasting events. However, because we had to wait for the church and venue to be set, it was only last weekend that we were finally able to go to one.

Caterers usually hold general food tastings to give prospective clients a chance to sample their food, see a sample setup, and be able to start discussions with them. Lucky for us, they invited us to a grand food tasting at the Blue Leaf Pavillion in McKinley Hill last Saturday, which is just a short car ride from our neighborhood.

When we got there, we immediately thought that Josiah's was really right for us. The setup was simple - it was only a food tasting event after all - but it was lovely. We also liked that our account executive, Karla, immediately sat with us, gave us an introduction to their services, showed us their portfolio book, and talked us through their packages. We really appreciated her candor - she was pretty honest in her answers to all our queries, and was even able to give us such helpful advice on a very important detail that we were mulling over. She even computed things for us, and gave a rundown of the things they can offer for free with our package, because we didn't choose their most basic one. There's a 12% VAT waive, which is a big deal as I found out that not all caterers can do it, plus add-ons - a dessert bar with 15 kinds of desserts, chocolate fondue with three kinds of chocolate (hazelnut milk, white, dark), a coffee and tea station, a make-your-own salad bar, a make-your-own pasta bar with a standby chef to toss the noodles in the pan for you, and the choice between a program emcee or a bridal car. She was even very accommodating with other things we wanted, such as giving us two drink choices instead of one because we said we liked two drink options and wanted both, and saying they're okay with us having less variety in the desserts in favor of more pieces of the stuff we liked. They're flexible, and we liked that.

She then walked us through all the banquet stations, told us the specifics of each one, and then left us to our own devices so we could enjoy the food in peace. The food was great. We didn't like everything of course (for example they served chicken with nuts, and we don't like nuts), but what we did like, we liked a whole lot. Aleq and I spent a couple of hours that afternoon just leisurely eating and taking in the relaxing atmosphere. We tried everything, though we had to get very small portions of some things so we don't collapse in a food coma, because that was the point of a food tasting. When we were done, Karla came over again, and we talked about the boring details like down payment and full payment schedules. She explained that once we have talked to our venue and paid the down payment, we will have another food tasting, with our choice of menu items this time. We're supposed to pick two kinds of dishes for every part of their menu, which they will prepare for us so we can decide on what we want. Aleq and I are definitely excited for that. We had a lot of fun at the food tasting, without having to make a commitment or shell out money yet. It was a productive, and absolutely enjoyable day for us. Afterwards, we went on a quick weekend date at High Street, and that was that.


Adorable yellow and blue setup!

Monday, August 13, 2012

Early Wedding Present - Guestbook

Our wedding is not until next year, but already, we have a guestbook! One of Aleq's aunts who lives in New York - and is one of our ninangs aka principal sponsors - sent over this delicate, white book from Beverly Clark Essentials. One prop down, more to go. Thank you "Uncle" Deanna!




Public Service Announcements

Hi peeps! I just added a few things over at the sidebar. Here's a rundown:


  • My friend Geli (see Engaged Girls and Engaged Girls Lunch) just made her own wedding blog! It's called The Scrimpy Bride. Check it out. 
  • My other friends who got married - Joven and Leslie, Gilbert and Beverley - also had wedding websites. I've linked to them there too. 
  • I've also updated my list of inspirations - various sites where I got my idea pegs and planning tips from. 

These are all primarily intended for my memory bank, but I figured readers of this blog might be interested in them as well. So here you go. 

Monday, August 6, 2012

Reception Venue - Check!

After a ton of research, several e-mails, a trip to Intramuros, and a trip to Roxas Boulevard, we finally have a reception venue. Yay! Aleq and I went and booked it the Sunday before last, on July 29.

Us on the rainy drive over

A Sneak Peek at the Members of our Wedding and Liturgical Entourage from my Family

My aunt Nel and cousin Bong celebrated their birthdays together at Centerstage in Jupiter the weekend before last (July 28). Aleq and I went, and we were glad we did because we were able to spend time with a sizable chunk of our wedding entourage there. Some of them were only informed that night of our plans. I didn't take  pics that night for some reason, so I just grabbed some pics from my cousin Camille, who will be one of our readers for the ceremony. There's one with my niece Carla,  one of our offerers, and plus one with Carlos, our adorable ring bearer. I didn't get the others, but just consider this as a sneak peek into our wedding and liturgical entourage.


Camille and me

First Meetup with the Wedding Fairies

Me with my Wedding Fairies!


Ever since Aleq and I got engaged, we've been offered help and given advice and tips by almost everybody. It's wonderful. We are glad for any kind of help, because let's face it - wedding planning is tough. This is why  when my cousin Lek and her friend Clang offered to help me with pretty much every aspect of the wedding that I need their help with, I said yes instantly. These architects are level-headed and creative, and since we started working together, I've taken to calling them our Wedding Fairies.

Church - Check!

Receipt and Requirements

It's official - we're getting married at the Santisimo Rosario Church in UST!

Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Venue Hunting in Roxas Boulevard

After a somewhat disappointing time venue hunting in Intramuros, Aleq and I decided to check out Roxas Boulevard. Though the area is full of hotels, we decided to skip them. His mom already inquired at all the relevant hotels for us, so we already had their rates and packages. However, we decided to look for a blank-canvass-type venue that would fit into our budget and that we would also have the freedom to customize. And so, after doing research on the Internet, we hied off to Manila last July 8, a Sunday, to have a look around the area. Here's how the day went.

The day started at Pioneer Center, where he and I grabbed lunch at Tokyu before heading out. We made sure we were prepared for a tiring day on the road.

I had the sake (salmon) sushi and red iced tea!

Monday, July 23, 2012

Venue Hunting in Intramuros

I haven't been keeping this blog as up-to-date as I want it to be, but Aleq and I have been a pretty busy couple! Honestly, we're feeling exhausted now, but we want to finalize some key things before we can relax on the wedding planning for a few months. A few weeks ago, on June 30, his family offered to go venue-hunting with us in Intramuros, so we jumped at the chance. (Thank you Medinas!) As it was a Saturday, we encountered a lot of traffic, so when we got there it was already evening. Still, we were able to visit a couple of places in the area, and were even able to talk to the venue people.

Patio Victoria

The Philippine Wedding Summit

J + A


The Philippine Wedding Summit was tiring, but a breeze. Having been to the Before I Do Bridal Expo, the fiance and I drew from that first experience and we felt like we had the know-how we needed to navigate  this event easily.

We drove over to the World Trade Center on the second day of the event, June 24, which was an extremely hot Sunday. My coworker Earl gave us free tickets that enabled us to skip the registration process entirely, saving us a lot of time (thanks dude!). So we got in, and just dove into it like we did before.

Look at the huge hall!

Thursday, July 12, 2012

The Pamanhikan

The Medinas and Yerros + The Balisnomos and Batoons

June 17, 2012 - Pamanhikan! For the benefit of my non-Filipino friends, the pamanhikan is a Filipino tradition. When couples get engaged here, the groom-to-be has to go to the bride-to-be's house with his family and ask her and her family for her hand in marriage. Aleq and I wanted to do it before we started really getting into the wedding plans, so we did it that weekend. It was so tough finding a date when both families were all free, and that day was the only day when our schedules were all in sync. So that Sunday, Aleq and his family went over to my house in Cavite and met me and my family. In keeping with tradition, they brought food, but we also prepared some dishes for them.

Thursday, June 28, 2012

Meetup with college friends

A few weeks back, Aleq and I met up with our college friends. These people formed our barkada (group) in UST. There were five of us then - Mel, Ernie, Jason, Aleq, and I. Then the group just grew with the arrival of others met over the years. We were actually a group before Aleq and I got together, so this set saw us evolve from friends to boyfriend and girlfriend. That is why Jason, Mel, and Ernie will be part of our wedding entourage. Details of the meetup are over at my blog.

JP, Mel, Candy, Jason, Julls, Aleq, Rommel, Ernie

Wednesday, June 27, 2012

Random Wedding Thoughts at 1AM

The fiance and I kind of wish we're the kind of people who would go for classic stuff so we can have a nice, traditional wedding like everybody else. However, we're not. He just wants to do his own thing. He doesn't want to just go with the trends or have everything tied to a certain theme or color or whatever. I am finding that I don't want florals, ribbons, beads, ruffles - frills, to put it simply. Though I like all those things in normal, everyday life, I am not feeling them for my wedding. We don't know why this is happening! We're not aiming to be rebellious or edgy or anything else like that, but we like what we like and that's it.

Our wedding right now is looking like it's going to be contemporary. It will have a bit of Japanese inspiration here, and a little rock over there. Hopefully, it's going to be modern, yet also very warm and somewhat still formal and traditional. Now how are we going to pull that off, exactly? We don't know. It's actually really difficult to choose things that aren't on-trend or colors that aren't common because we have to search high and low to find patterns and pegs that we love. [Edit: For example, gray suits are on-trend this year and black is classic, so all the stores have and all the designers are showing are gray, black, and the occasional white. Plus, the barong is the main choice in this country for formal attire, and it's what people are more used to.] I'm actually getting that feeling of idea overload, like there are so many things we want that we need to think of, but they're not going to come easily. I get frustrated at liking weird things - stuff that make people go "Huh?", "What?", and "Really?" - because then I have to think of ways to achieve them and since they're strange, it's tough.

I guess all we can do is to go by instinct here, and just hope for the best. The important thing is that we both agree with each other and make sure we love everything that we decide on. Wish us luck!

Monday, June 25, 2012

The Ring




You’ve seen the ring. You know what it looks like. But do you know how it came to be? No, it wasn’t made from the fires of Mount Doom, in Mordor. Trust me, this is not the one ring to rule them all (took the use of this LOTR quote from one of Chris Pirillo’s vlogs). It did however, require a lot of effort to put together.

Initially, the idea was just to get a ring from a jewelry store. However, I couldn’t find a sapphire that was round in shape. Most shops had them shaped like an egg. Plus they were placed on a ring with a star-shaped crown. While it did look fancy, it was a design that was all too common. Practically almost every store had one in varying sizes. Thankfully, my Uncle Ponch - who accompanied me the whole time I was having the ring made - offered a solution: build the damn thing from scratch.  

First, the stone. We went to different jewelry stores asking if they sold loose stones. As expected, most of them said no. Those that did say yes weren’t able to give us something as big as the one my uncle and I got. Luckily, we found what we were looking for in Greenhills, of all places. Had that failed, we probably would’ve ended up somewhere in Binondo, which was something I really didn’t want to put myself through. With the “rock” secured, we moved on to the next item on the list - the ring itself.

Where have we been?

Hello! It's been a while. Things might seem to have come to a standstill here on the blog, but the fiance and I are on schedule so far wedding-wise (I think, heh). So where have we been? Well, we've been busy working, that's what. Weddings cost a ridiculous amount of money, and since we want ours to be special, we're making sure we're good on the financial front. That's why we've been - and will continue being - busy making money. Come to think of it, we would still be busy without the wedding. We're just really focused on business for the simple reason that it is important for our future. Don't worry though. We'll make time to update this blog with our most recent wedding preparation developments and more wedding-related stories or thoughts soon.

Tuesday, May 29, 2012

This and That

Everyday Aleq and I try to do something for the wedding, whether it's just to discuss an idea or go over the budget. We have work and bills and other things to think about, and we know we have so many months ahead of us, but we don't want to waste a single minute being unproductive. Time flies by so fast and we don't want to be left cramming. Here are a few things worth documenting wedding-wise as of late.


This is the Our Happy Day Google doc. It's an Excel file that my friend Geli sent to me that has been incredibly helpful to us. It's the one she and her fiance Pat are using, and she actually customized it for me and Aleq, which we thought was very sweet. It has tabs for the timeline, to-dos, guest list, sponsors, suppliers, on-going expenses, and a budget checklist! How cool is that? I am currently tweaking it further to indulge my obsessive-compulsive tendencies.

I recently dug out my keepsakes from the most recent weddings I attended. I made sure to keep things like invitations, photobooth pictures, thank you cards, and misalettes to serve as references for my own wedding. Seeing these actually helped me figure out what I wanted. 

Meetup with Aleq's friends

Aleq and I met up with his friends only a few days after the proposal. They just wanted to hear all about it. I met them all before but it was the first time I actually hung out with them. These guys - Dabs, Rein, Josh, and Ren Ren will make up part of our male entourage. They'll be sponsors and groomsmen. The rest of the pictures and story are over at my blog.

 Left to right: Dabs, Rein, Josh, Ren Ren, me, Aleq

Church Troubles

Our only church of choice is the Santisimo Rosario Church at UST. The University of Santo Tomas is the place where it all began, so it is the only place we want to get married in. My brother and sis-in-law, who both work there, tried to reserve the church for us, but they were told that UST doesn't have a calendar for 2013 yet, and that the couple to be married needs to make the reservation in person. So Aleq and I foolishly set out to book the church on May 1, Labor Day. We asked my sister-in-law if it was open on Tuesday, and she said yes. It probably slipped her mind that it was a holiday then.


So we went there bright and early to avoid the Labor Day rallies. When we got there, the parish office was closed, of course. Aleq and I just ended up having lunch at Coffee Indulgence in P. Noval St. - a place of nostalgia for me because I used to go there back in college with other girl classmates for a shake after P.E. classes.

Labor Day morning in Manila - activist flags, banners, rallyists, the beginnings of a traffic jam.


Monday, May 28, 2012

Our First Wedding Fair - The Before I Do Bridal Expo

We survived our first wedding fair! Aleq and I bravely ventured into the world of wedding suppliers earlier, when we attended the Before I Do Bridal Expo at the Megatrade Hall in Megamall. As it was our first time, we didn't know what to expect, so we just dived in.


   The entrance to the event - had to take a quick pic with my phone

Saturday, May 26, 2012

On the fitness plan


I renewed my gym membership last week, so I got a new welcome kit today. My last one was blue. I got the black one this time. I'm starting next week. I have close to a year to get into shape. I gave myself an enormous head start, heh.

Friday, May 25, 2012

Engaged Girls Lunch

When my office friend Geli got engaged, we had lunch at Coffee Bean and Tea Leaf so she could tell me all about it. Then when I got engaged, we had lunch at Pancake House last April 24 so I could tell her all about it. Though I posted a pic of our rings, I just realized that I never posted the picture from that particular lunch. So, here it is.



Monday, May 21, 2012

The Our Happy Day Journal

I knew there was a reason why I’ve been saving this Moleskine journal that my friend Leslie gave me for something important. This is going to be my engagement-wedding journal. I want to be able to remember every single detail of this time, and this is a good way to chronicle our private thoughts about everything.

And so it starts...

This magazine got us started on the brainstorming. Seeing stuff on print got my head straight there. Let the preparations begin!



Monday, May 14, 2012

I am so dreading this part.

"A great party is all about the guest list. The food, music, and venue are important, but no party is complete without your family and friends." - Designer Michael Kors in the December 2011 issue of Glamour UK
This is why I am procrastinating on writing up my wedding guest list. I want the entire world there, but of course that isn't even remotely possible.